- I can see instantly when someone dies spiritually or have physical pain, is often called, but often one is mistaken, because not everything is always visible, such as physical damage, which is rarely seen in most cases to mental abuse. This seems to be the secret of the neighbors, but that is not true, because today live a lot of people in the world who are spiritually badly damaged. ... It might help to get my explanation in a better perspective on the basis of an attack on a person's life with the victim as direct object. The direct example is here unconsciously accommodate a power game. The direct example of this situation, not only at the time, but mostly her whole life affected by this incident. Of these, there are numerous examples from everyday life that refer to the above. Another form of mental abuse often is not far to seek. Take for example the manipulations by parents to children. These often take quite extreme forms to which the self-esteem and self-respect in a very early stage and carefully premeditated is undermined according to a fixed preconceived pattern. This pedagogical concept is applied within the education to curb people follow a set pattern and perspective.